Friday, November 8, 2013

Movember Fails

As many of you know, November, is the month that many men wear mustaches and raise money for cancer research.  Well, although I'm a fan of Movember, I'd like to state the following.  A goatee is not a mustache.  I've known several individuals who proudly post photos of their mustaches when in reality.....its actually a goatee.

Case in point:  Brad Pitt looks pretty good here, but that's a goatee.  Not a mustache.

Brad Pitt with Goatee
Tom Selleck with Mustache


As much as a fan I am of Tom Selleck's mustache.........unless you are Nick Offerman, Sam Elliott, or Tom Selleck, a mustache takes a little bit of sacrifice.  A goatee usually does not.  So on that note..... HAPPY MOVEMBER!!

Wednesday, October 30, 2013

Great Article on the Yarnell Fire

As a former wild-land fire, I haven't really talked about the Yarnell Fire much until now.  19 fire fighters, members of a hot-shot crew, were killed last Spring.  In fact, although I shared this article with my brother, I didn't read the article until last night.  Once I started reading the article, I couldn't stop.  The author did a great job of describing the events that happened last Spring and I believe was the first journalist to interview the surviving firefighter.  One thing I liked about the article is that its clear where the supervisor made several mistakes but the author doesn't explicitly condemn him.
http://www.outsideonline.com/outdoor-adventure/nature/YarnellFire.html

Wednesday, October 23, 2013

New

Like most people of a certain age, I've been a fan of the Beatles as long as I can remember, and specifically Paul McCartney (the cute Beatle, as my mom always calls him) post Beatles for many years.  Oh sure, Paul has written a few goose-eggs, but so has Bob Dylan (most of the 80's).  Anyway, Paul's new album is one of his strongest efforts in years and the first single off the album, New, is a song most people will enjoy.  Below is the lyrics video for the song.  About 3/4 of the way through the video is a shot of Paul laying a guitar pick on Elvis's grave.  My brother and I happened to be in Memphis the same day Paul visited Graceland (I really wanted to go to the concert that night but we didn't have time).  The bottom video is Paul singing "New" acoustically and demonstrates that Paul McCartney is still "the cute Beatle."




Wednesday, October 2, 2013

Quote of the Day

"What do you wish you were?
Do you wish you were the light of every star?
Nobody Knows, but maybe that's just what you are."

---Patty Griffin

Sunday, September 15, 2013

True Roundy Feild and Keith Alma Feild

My cousin Trudy started a family blog recently called "Trudy's Tree."  Trudy's first two entries are family histories of our grandma, True Roundy Feild, and our grandpa, Keith Alma Feild.  Although my "gramma" was suffering when she died just two years ago, two weeks ago, losing her was losing my "third" parent. My mother and her siblings refer to my grandma as Mama..and my cousins and I called her gramma..which I think was partly out of laziness..and partly because our parents called her mama.  I know Grandma True is in a better place but I think I'll always think of her this time of year.  Grandma True's  birthday is this week though and I plan to celebrate by laughing, reading Robert Frost, and eating fish sandwiches; something we both did together as a treat. We would often go out and get fish sandwiches to celebrate my birthday..or just as a special little thing we would do.
True Roundy Feild on left...Keith Alma Feild on right.  Both pictures taken in the 1940's I believe. 
My grandpa, Keith, died when I was seven years old from a recurrence of lymphoma.  I only have "little kid" memories of Keith, but I still remember many things about him.  He was a huge reader and would read to me, even when he was sick.  When my younger brother was born, I was excited, but the only person I didn't want to share Richard with was my Grandpa Keith.  He was a quiet man, but very loving..and intellectually curious.  Grandpa Keith didn't get a chance to get a college education, but he read engineering journals that a friend dropped off.  My mom says that she wishes my grandpa would've lived long enough to meet my youngest brother because he would've gotten a kick out of Steven.  Grandpa Keith also was well-read and loved literature.  Although my grandma True didn't approve of novels, my grandpa often had a library book tucked away to read after he finished the chores.  His book collection was eclectic, and I remember seeing his copy of "Roots," after he died.  Both my grandparents loved poetry and rhyme..and I think they both realized that I thought in rhyme..or responded to rhyme, because they both had me memorize poetry at a young age.  Anyway, reading my grandparent's histories (which I've read before..but its been several years) was interesting.  It was interesting to read what the two talked about in their personal histories.
Here's the link again.  http://trudyanne.wordpress.com


Sunday, August 25, 2013

Health Update: Lungs just want to hug

I'm doing better.  Healing from strep, dealing with antibiotics and my old frienemy, prednisone, has been a daily adventure, but I was able to work almost a 40 hour week last week, talk to my brother over a hour, go see "Austenland" with a few dear friends, garden, and go to dinner with a close friend last night. So yeah, hopefully Kelli's (my roommate) cold won't be passed onto men and I'll be able to continue healing up so my posts won't be all laments about my reactive lungs.  Hope each of you that have been reading this post have a great, week ahead.
Originally Titled, "Hugs Keep us Alive"

Sunday, August 18, 2013

Quote of the Day

In Rolling Stone this week, a fascinating article about the "poorest" rich kids in the world appears.  These kids, from the Duke family (think Doris Duke and Duke University) were completely neglected and abused until a few years ago.  Now 15, they may or not be able to move on and lead productive lives.  Here's the quote from the author of the piece:
"You need not be shaped by your past, but rather the path ahead can be forged solely by your own actions, starting now." Sabrina Rubin Erdely


Tuesday, August 13, 2013

And I'm Back

I spent a week in Colorado working and then a week in Utah enjoying family and friends.  The trip was recharging and now I'm back in DC.  My lungs aren't quite the saddest or angriest lungs anymore although they still have their moments. I'll write more about the trip later.  I did get to see Mr. Z perform twice in eight days which is always a treat.  
Robert Zimmerman (Bob Dylan)

Sunday, July 21, 2013

The Saddest Lungs

Rather than going to church today I'm stuck at home breathless and a bit crippled.  Now, its my own fault.  I'm pretty sure I overdid it yesterday and should have stopped when I was (very minorly) injured in (hopefully my first and only) a freak shopping cart accident and gave myself a black eye with my car door.  But no, I decided to clean this morning...and the house is spotless, but now I'm at home breathless.  At least I feel better than I have for the past 10 days or so.  Progress!
My lungs....

Thursday, July 18, 2013

a crazy kind of love

A couple of years ago, I happened across the book below.  The title made me laugh out loud. Love, really?  I've been meaning to pick up a copy of this book to read, maybe this fall.  That title maybe lost in translation, but the author is Russian, so maybe not.

Amazon Link


Monday, July 15, 2013

My Kind of Town...

I spent the 4th of July Holiday in Chicago with my parents and youngest brother.  We ate, we argued about McDonalds, we saw two baseball games, went on an architecural boat tour.  All in all, I think everyone enjoyed themselves and my brother and dad were ready to go back to Chicago (they had never been).



From Left: The building with what looks like a #4 on it was the "sexy" building  according to the tour guide.  Steven excited about having been to Wrigley Field.  A Family bean selfie.  Love the bean (okay, Cloud Gate). 

Monday, July 8, 2013

The Miracle Martha

Every once in a while, a recipe or food technique comes around, and people who read recipes recreationally and cook as a hobby (not always the same people), get excited.  A few years ago the recipe that was "revolutional" was Jim Lahey's no-knead bread technique.

Last month, Martha Stewart Living published a recipe for one-pot spaghetti.  Within days, almost every food blog I read had mentioned it.  I saw the recipe several times on Pinterest and got a little excited.  A recipe with fresh ingredients that you throw in a pot, boil and get spaghetti?  Well, I tried the one pan pasta recipe and yes, this is something that everyone can make, and the recipe tastes great.  The pasta cooks simultaneously in broth which cooks down to make a richly flavored sauce.  The recipe takes about 15 minutes to make and the ingredients are all ones I had in my garden or can easily be purchased at the grocery store.
From http://www.apronstringsblog.com
One Pan Pasta Recipe:

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Not so Fast

I checked on my plants again last night and several plants that looked to be in bad shape bounced back.  I'm hoping we don't get another Tropical Storm anytime soon, but glad to see my plants are doing fine.

Joy

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

June Garden


The Tropical storm ravaged my little garden plot.  Several plants drowned and a few others look pretty haggard.  Here's the plot though.  

Tuesday, June 18, 2013

And the Verdict....

So, I'm in a walking cast for the next 4 weeks.  Maybe.  I'm going in for a MRI scan on Friday.  I see the Doctor again in about 10 days.  Once we agree upon the next step (surgery or PT), I'm going to lobby for an ankle brace.  But I'm already wearing an ankle brace while driving and in the garden.  I'm just wearing the cast in the office and on my commute.  

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Hobbling

I've always had joints that are a little loose. Consequently, I've twisted my ankle quite a few times growing up.  About 10 years ago I tore several ligaments in my left ankle.  I've been to an orthopedist twice for that foot and now get to go back a third time to see about the foot.  I've been limping for nearly a month here and there, but the foot is getting worse and my roommate is pretty sure its bursitis.  Here's hoping this time PT and my bicycle(s) will get this foot moving in no time.

Monday, June 10, 2013

Garden Floods

Rain is a great thing for crops.  Three inches of rain over the weekend and another 1-3 inches today plus a possible derecho (rain and tornado level winds) and I'm thinking about converting my little garden in a rice paddy.  I checked the garden on Saturday and the garden was wet, but only my lettuce was flooded (about three inches).  The lettuce needs to be harvested, but may not happen for a few days because of these silly storms.  I'm also thinking I need a different plot next year.  We'll see.

Joy

Thursday, June 6, 2013

Garden of Eatin'

So, as most of you should know, I'm a Chinquapin community gardener as of March of this year.  I've been on the waiting list for years (literally. It's been 5 years) so I was excited to get a plot.  The plots are good sized.  They are approximately 15 feet by 20 feet.  Needless to say, I've taken my time to fill the plot with vegetables, partly because we had a cold spring.  Some of my plants are doing better than others and I've found that part of the garden drains into my plot which is a bit of a problem, but my lettuce seem to thrive on being "swamp" lettuce so there's that.  I'm a little nervous about this summer.  We're already going to get "slop" from the first Tropical Storm of the season and I'm a little worried about my garden's ability to drain itself.  But they are plants and it is Virginia where everything that can, will grow.
April 2013.  You can see my porcelain owl in the corner there.

June 2013. 
Tomatoes.  There's three tomatoes on the closest plant.

Summer Squash, peppers and Brussel Sprouts.  the makeshift net is my peas and beans.

Another garden shot



Wednesday, June 5, 2013

An Open Letter to the Neighborhood Mosquitos

I get it.  You smell fear or something.  You know exactly where to bite so my leg gets welts the size of silver dollars and I'm miserable for a couple of days.  I don't understand how you know where to bite because your brain has to be tiny, but whatever.  Seriously though, twice in less than a week in the same leg and about two inches away from the last bite?  Is this what my summer is going to be like this year?  We haven't even hit July where I just know I'm going to be an itchy mess and keep a bottle of Benadryl topical gel at the office and at home.  Anyway, I'm not really complaining, I'm just mystified at my luck.

Thanks for hearing me out,
Joy

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

May Books Part 2

"Odd and the Frost Giants" is classic Neil Gaiman.  Gaiman wrote Coraline and many other fabulous, creepy books.  This book is a retelling of the Norse legends.  If you've seen the movie "Thor," you'll do just fine with this book.  What I loved about this simple story is that the protagonist doesn't use violence in the climax.  The book is well-written and I quite enjoyed the story.  Plus, be sure to read the "About Author" page at the end.  I laughed out loud.  Three Stars.










Remember the play, "Pygmalion," which "My Fair Lady" is based on?  Well, Pygmalion is actually based on this very true, incredibly weird story and the Greek legend.  An eccentric, wealthy Englishman who had little luck with the ladies adopted two orphan girls with the intent of  raising them to create the perfect wife in 18th Century England.  This book which is very well researched, tells this story of both the bachelor, the orphans, and the friends of both.  The story is fascinating and is a fast read.  Four Stars.









Walter Kirn is a favorite author of mine and this story does not disappoint.  The story, actually an essay, is about the Bible Kirn finds when cleaning out his mother's house shortly after she passes away.  He intertwines the notes that he finds in her bible with his own interpretation of scripture passes and the life he shared with his mother.  Four Stars.










Like many baseball tales, the actual baseball history of Ron Guidry and Yogi Berra was fascinating.  However, I found the author using a lot of filler in this book.  The book kind of meandered in one direction and then in another direction with no real rhyme or reason.  However, I found the friendship between the two interesting and the reconciliation between Berra and Steinbrenner fascinating.  I wasn't a real fan of the author's voice however.  Three Stars.











I really can't believe I hadn't read this book before.  I believe my parents had a copy of this laying around the house (and I read most of their books at one point or another) but this was the first time I read this classic completely.  Much of the book is absolutely fascinating.  The stories and Frankl's logic is astonishing.  I really wish I would have read this book a few years ago, but I still enjoyed the book a ton now.  Four Stars.

Monday, June 3, 2013

May Book Wrap-up Part I

Every year I challenge myself to read 50 books.  I usually read more books than that, but that way if I'm stuck on a book for a couple of weeks or longer, I won't feel guilty about reading something longer or slower than my usual pace.  Because I was sick for much of January and February, I was something like 6 books behind in the middle of April.  I'm now several books ahead.  Why?  I read 11 books this month.  So, let me tell you about them.


"Going Underground," is the story of a seventeen year-old convicted felon.  Del, the protagonist of the story works at a private cemetery because its the only business in town that will hire him.  He was convicted because of "sexting" charges with his consenting (but slightly younger) girlfriend when he was 14.  The story talks about his future as a felon and Del grappling with life and his sentence.  I think I gave the book 3 or 4 stars because it was well-written.



"The White Queen" tells the tale of Elizabeth Woodville, who was the spouse to the King of England in the 15th Century.  She's a widow but ends up marrying the King of England.  However, although they have quite a few little heirs, the validity of their marriage and the heirs is called into question.  Her husband dies quite suddenly, her young boys go missing and another King of England is named.  I really thought the first third of the historical fiction read like a poorly written romance novel, but the story picked up once Elizabeth went to London when she was revealed to be the Queen.  Three Stars.  Book Club Novel.


"The Shoemaker's Wife" is a fictionalized account of the author's grandparents.  Her Grandparents hail from villages in the Italian Alps just a few miles from each other.  When both are in their early twenties they both move to New York separately.  They are reunited in New York and eventually get married.  The first two thirds of the book is fascinating.  The author is able to create a world that leaves you wanting to turn pages rapidly.  However, I thought the last 1/3 was clunky.  The author is too close to the characters and the writing is off.  Three Stars. Book Club Selection.

"Salvage the Bones" takes place a week before Hurricane Katrina hits Louisiana and Mississippi.  The protagonist, a young, pregnant black girl, and her brothers live with their disinterested, alcoholic father in the bayou.  The kids pretty much take care of themselves, but the father is interested in Hurricane preparation.  I enjoyed this novel a lot except for the heavy handed use of symbolism.  4 Stars.


"Ham on Rye" is a semi-autobiographical novel by the author.  The book follows the main character from a three year old to adult life.  The story isn't for everyone.  There's no love ever shown between anyone and many of the stories told are both humorous and horrific. The novel is written by a (beat) poet and when you read it, you find that there's a rhythm to the novel that is missing in most prose.  Five Stars.



"Fever 1793" is not the story of a jaundiced vampire, as that cover would lead you to believe.  No, the story is about a teenage girl in Philadelphia during the Yellow Fever plague of that year.  The book is based on true events, and really starts moving after a slow 1/3 of the story.  I found myself enjoying the novel and the historical details, but only gave this book 3 stars because of the clunky 1/3 of the book.







Friday, May 31, 2013

Karma

Yesterday was just one of those days where several things went wrong and I received several pieces of unpleasant news.  My car is facing its first major repair.  The car is 13 years old and I've had it for 11 so its about time, but it still isn't the best news.  Then there was a couple of other things.  Needless to say someone chose a goat over me.  I'll stop holding a grudge in a few days and the situation will blow over.  Anyway, by 3:30 in the afternoon, someone asked me for money for a bus ride.  My first thought was, 'yes, I'll give you that money. I need to change my karma.'  I'm not sure if that was the greatest motivation for giving someone else 50 cents, but well, it works for me.  
 

Thursday, May 30, 2013

The Blind Julia Roberts

My morning bus attracts a lot of different characters.  There's the regular blue and white collar folks who ride to work but we also get the occasional homeless person and the day laborers who aren't that far from being homeless and aren't part of the regular bus crowd.  These guys are functional but smell, look and act like alcoholics.  Today one of these "fuctional" alcoholics boarded the bus when I was already sitting down (in the handicapped section).  I had my sunglasses on because the sun was right in my eye.  The next thing I know this guy is having a one sided conversation with himself.  Well, with me, but it was one-sided because I couldn't see him (the glasses) and I decided not to engage him in conversation.
 He asked me if I was blind and then when I didn't respond he started talking to me about blind people.  He then started hitting on me by telling me that my hair looks like Julia Roberts, but I couldn't see it because I was blind.  The Hispanic ladies next to me started giggling because they could understand part of the conversation and realized I wasn't blind.  I then realized I had to get off the bus before this guy, but he was hitting on one of the other women on the bus when I got to my bus stop.  

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Arrested...


Arrested is Back and we're as happy as Tobias in a Roman Centurion Costume.  Oh Arrested Development isn't quite as tight, the pacing is a bit off, there's too much dialogue and comedic bits run a bit too long, but it sure is great to see our Bluths back on TV.

Friday, April 19, 2013

JBJ

My mother called me this morning and informed that she wished she could have attended the Bon Jovi concert in Salt Lake on Wednesday night.  She then backed up and said, "I wouldn't want to buy the tickets, but I know I would've enjoyed the concert."  I knew about my mom's love for JBJ but still a tiny bit surprised whenever Bon Jovi comes up.  She then asked me about that one song, "you give love...you give love...."  I completed the title and her voice picked up just a little after she repeated the title of the song. I have to think "You give love a bad name," is now in mother's head right now and she's enjoying it.


Thursday, April 18, 2013

James Bond? Really?

As you probably know, Brigham Young University has a honor code.  Well, the sign below has been used by the University to enforce the honor code...Except, I'm not sure if whoever made up these signs really thought the idea of using Mr. Bond as a role model for the honor code.  The original sign is on the left.

Thursday, March 21, 2013

Quote of the Day

From an Interview with Margaret Blair Young on "A Motley Vision":

"I believe in dealing with hard issues.  If we don’t learn to deal with them, we will almost certainly lack empathy when others are hitting them.  We need to train our minds and magnify our faith as our children grow in this internet age.  They will come to us with questions to bridge what they learn in Sunday school and what they read online.  Our answers will need to reflect our knowledge and the example of who we are in this age and place of Mormonism; what we cling to as our essential and inviolate morality.  This is a dynamic religion.  We may still stand in holy places, even while acknowledging that many in the past became detached from their “better angels.”"
http://www.motleyvision.org/2013/questions-for-margaret-blair-young/

Margaret Blair Young has been someone I've looked up to for the past couple of years.  She's a published author, BYU Professor, President at AML, very involved with the African (and American) Mormon Community.  

Friday, February 22, 2013

Upstairs, Downton

A few days ago my mom asked me whether or not I had seen the season finale of Downton Abbey.  I hadn't and so the next sentence out of her mouth....wasn't words.  I take that back. There might have been an "oh my" somewhere in that sentence of oh...............wow................oh.............my..........ah...oh..

So yesterday I caught up with Downton Abbey.  I was two episodes shy from the end of the show.  I don't consider Downton much more than a historical soap, but the show is fun and it's amazing to see how it's become a pop cultural icon here in the US, so I watch the show.  That and avoiding conversations like the one above with my mother.

Anyway, my thoughts about Downton Abbey without giving any plot spoilers away can pretty much be summarized by the cartoon below that's been circulating on the internet the past couple of weeks:




Saturday, February 9, 2013

Catch-up

Ah, so where have I been?  Pretty much just trying to breathe.  I had sinus surgery on January 7th.Turns out I have a deviated septum and a couple of other problems.  I also have no right upper sinus cavity (congenital birth defect) and my lower sinus cavities were formed upside down (mine look like triangles, they should look funnels)  The two birth defects can't be fixed, but the surgeon went in and fixed the septum and took care of the stuff that could be fixed which already has made a bit of a difference.

Luckily my dad came out for a week to help out.  He did and we (of course) watched a lot of World War II era movies and mini-series.  We both agree that Ali McGraw is maybe the worst actress ever (Winds of War) and that Detective Chief Superintendent Christopher Foyle is pretty great.  We also spent some time in DC on his last day here touring the Smithsonian Museums. We tagged along on a tour of the "star" section of the air and space museum which we both enjoyed.
Anyway back to me.  I've been healing alright but it took a couple of weeks to settle my stomach and I got another sinus infection and bronchitis.  I'm now just trying to heal naturally from the bronchitis and sinus infection because both the ENT, pulmonologist and me agrees that I should try to heal naturally from the infections first before I go back on antibiotics. I've also been told the sinus surgery is healing just nicely, which is great.  

So next week I'm going back to the Yucatan for a week long vacation.  I'm going with Kelli and Abby.  Kelli is healing from a herniated disc and is literally learning how to walk again in PT.  That has been fun for her.  Abby was feeling horrible that she fractured her heel last week.  However, she fits right in with the two of us. Anyway, the trip should still be pretty great.  

Sunday, February 3, 2013

Hope Springs: A Mini Review

Last week I sat down to watch Hope Springs with Tommy Lee Jones and Meryl Streep.  I went into the film knowing I wasn't the target demographic for the movie, except for my life-long love of both actors.  The film is about an older couple whose relationship isn't doing well and they go see a therapist (played by Steve Carell).  Well, the script of the film was mediocre, the title of the film lazy, the cinematography was okay, Tommy Lee was solid, and Steve Carell played the part he always plays when he isn't in Anchorman.  But Meryl?  Meryl was amazing as always.  She's in-arguably (really, I think Daniel Day Lewis would agree) the best actor alive and she elevated the role of the frustrated housewife.  But as far as watching it?  If you are a Meryl Streep fan, then yes, go watch this film.

Hope Springs


Thursday, January 17, 2013

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